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Strange Faces

image Friday, midday, a van full of Strange Faces picked me up from my house on the corner of Urwiler and McFarland and off we went. They were nearing the end of the two week tour which had taken them from their home base of Chicago to South by Southwest in Austin, from free shots with the apply dubbed “Hairy Shoulders” in New Orleans to misogynistic bros and precious hardwood floors in Nashville. Now they were headed from Cincinnati, where they picked me up, to Columbus, birthplace place of Ben the Drummer, before returning to Chicago for the final show.

We arrived at Ben’s childhood home in Columbus around mid-afternoon and prepared to unwind before they played. Immediately came the production of coffee and the opening of beers which stood in the fridge, awaiting our arrival. On the ride there, Phil the Bassist had caught a glimpse of my Yerba Mate (yehrbuh mahtay) gourd and asked me to bring it in. Due to the lack of a kettle (Dear UK Readers: yes, there are people in America who do not own kettles!), we boiled our water in a pot on the stove as I explained the few rules I knew to the boys:

1. The Pattern – I fill the gourd, then drink until its empty. I then refill it and pass it to Phil. Phil drinks the entire contents, making sure to slurp loudly at the end so we know its gone, and then passes it back to me. I refill it and pass it to David. The process repeats.

2. “Thank You” – Only say “thank you” when you are satisfied and do not want the gourd passed back to you. This was the hardest to follow and the boys always made sure to tell me when they almost said it! ❤

3. Don’t touch the straw!

We sipped Maté and explored the house. David fixed the guitar he had smashed the night before. And the night before that. And the night before that. And so on. David, my “brother from another mother,” is a ham. And for that I love him all the more! IMG_2408.JPG The show was at Used Kids, a record store a few blocks from OSU campus and, to my great relief, I loved it! (It could have been a bit awkward to travel around with a band whose music I didn’t like!) David and Taylor the Guitarist – someone I knew, though not well, from high school with whom I thoroughly enjoyed reacquainting myself – had wonderful chemistry, playing with and against each other, running back and forth on stage, goofily portraying in their dance the somewhat aggressive, yet ultimately enticing ebb and flow of musical life. I can’t put my finger on a genre or categorization for it but their style had been described along the way as “Beach Boy Punk” and “Acid Pop”. Each had a nice ring to it and I’d say their sound is somewhere in between. Either way, it’s very groovy and I suggest checking them out! Their first album, Stonerism, comes out this summer. IMG_2409.JPG The next morning we hopped in the van and headed off to Chicago to close the tour. Upon arrival it was evident that the boys were exhausted so the performance was flamboyant and alcohol-infused, and included an awesome interluding rendition of Roy Orbison’s “Almost Eighteen!” Despite some technical difficulties (David’s guitar did not want to stay in one piece), the night was a blast. The rest of the evening was spent having slightly off-kilter (if you know what I mean) conversations on literature and philosophy with tired, smiling, Strange Faces. Can’t get any better than that.

Bloom and Wither

“A human being is a part of the whole, called by us Universe, a part limited in time and space. He experiences himself, his thoughts and feelings as something separated from the rest-a kind of optical delusion of his consciousness. This delusion is a kind of prison, restricting us to our personal desires and to affection for a few persons nearest to us. Our task must be to free from this prison by widening our circle of compassion to embrace all living creatures and the whole nature in its beauty.” – Albert Einstein

Well, although the recent weeks have been extremely powerful, I can’t say they have been all that nice. In regards to the power, not only did we experience the New Moon in Pisces, the Spring Equinox, and the SuperMoon Solar Eclipse last night, but pair that with the wild solar flares that have led up to it and you’ve got yourself an explosion of energy – quite literally!

This past month in Pisces has been very potent for me. The dark, dreamy, archetypal fish swam from heartache to heartbreak and at moments I felt I was the catalyst creating the waves.  My understanding of life – vague as it was –  was thrown out on the table, stretched to its near limit, bundled up, and promptly thrown away without a second thought. I was forced to look Death square in Her twisted face and declare, “I see you. You exist and you are as ever-present as Life. We are designed to blossom with Life and wither with You. You are acknowledged.” Not as easy as it sounds.

Within a week of each other, I – alongside many more – endured the painful passing of two inspirational souls, neither one made it past 25 years. We lost the first, a friend whom I had met in Portugal, on the anniversary of the horrifying loss of a childhood friend. Coincidence? It didn’t feel like it. As I write this now, I am struck with the fact that these three young people were exceptionally gifted in their ability to bring out vivacity, creativity, and kindness in those with whom they shared space.  It was, therefore, very difficult for me to reason with Death, something I could at least attempt with the loss of a murderer or dictator or generally bad person. I am in no way saying that I believe anyone “deserves” to die, only that on some level it made some sort of fucked up sense to me. These three didn’t. So I panicked.

The only thing I could think of that connected them, the only common denominator I could see, was me. Was I somehow causing everything around me to fall apart? Was this the universe’s cruel way of telling me I’m doing something wrong? Was more tragedy going to ensue if I kept thinking about the tragedy that had already ensued?? Or was I just being selfish and making it about me? After a deep compassionate breath, I think the answer lies closest to that last one. As Einstein said, it is delusional to restrict our affection to only a few people, and these are not the only people to have died. People endure much worse everyday, thousands of people die everyday – add to that the suffering of their families, friends, coworkers, etc., and no one is exempt. If I felt like “someone” or “something” was trying to tell me to change directions, then I am most likely dissatisfied myself and would benefit from tuning in and listening to my own instincts. But people don’t need to die for me to know that. People die because Death is a part of Life, and it will only drive us crazy to try and make any more sense of it. Some things are truly tragic, its as simple as that. We may never get over them, but what we can do is feel what comes, support each other, and then keep moving forward.

Accidents, injury, and illness have continued to surround me at what feels like an above average rate. Or maybe they’re not and I’m just more sensitive and aware. Either way, instead of breaking down and blaming myself for all that is evil in the world, I am taking things as they come, one step at a time, and being of as much service as I can to those affected without neglecting to love and care for myself, for I am a vital part of the Whole, just as you.

Blessed be.

All the love I can muster to the friends and family of Esme, Rúben, and Emma ❤


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As I mentioned in my first post, I have a thing for comparing original travel plans to the events that have actually played out. As a way of checking in, I thought I’d briefly review last years travels and lay down the plan for this year.

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Plan for 2014:

Feb. 11 ~ Fly to Lisboa! Volunteer at the Alfama Patio Hostel, attempt to get some extra cash and practice busking, speak Portuguese!

March ~ Volunteer at a holistic health retreat in Coimbra, Portugal

April 15 ~ Birthday in Portugal! Weee!

May ~ Barcelona!

May 31-June 6 ~ Hoop Gathering in Girona!

June ~ Maybe stop in Berlin, then return to Copenhagen

October ~ Second year of the Commedia School

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What actually happened:

IMG_1002Feb. 18 ~ Flew to Lisbon (went through a few flight delays, slept at the airport, and had to wait 3 days for my luggage, which the airline decided to leave in Chicago); Volunteered at the Sunset Destination Hostel (sister hostel to Alfama Patio)

IMG_1599March 18 ~ Marrakesh, Morocco – spent a few days in the city and a few days headed to the desert (including a camel ride through the desert and a night sleeping under the stars)

March 24 ~ Flew to Seville, Spain

March 27 ~ Took a BlaBla Car back to Lisbon! Continued to volunteer at Sunset Destination Hostel

April 15 ~ Birthday in Portugal! Weee! Probably the best birthday I’ve ever had, thanks entirely to the lovely people I befriended in Lisbon.

~~~~~ I volunteered for a few months, then got a job as a bartender at Oasis Backpackers Mansion. I lived in a house outside of the city in June and then moved into a wonderful little flat in Alfama, where I stayed until my return to Ohio.

IMG_5235.PNGJuly – Aug. ~ My best friend, Raechel, came to visit! She lived with me in Alfama. At some point during this time we took a weekend trip to Porto with my friend, Pedro.

October 7 ~ My visa and visa extensions ran out; flew back to Cincinnati

As you can see, things changed. A lot! I decided that, wonderful and life changing as my studies at The Commedia School were, I was not at a point where I felt it was appropriate for me to continue into the second year. It was a very difficult decision but my connection to theatre, one that I had lived with for over 10 years, was no longer there; or, at least, no longer visible to me. It may return someday, and I will welcome it with open arms, but at this point in my life I felt that I had found a home of sorts in Lisbon and wanted to explore that feeling.

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Now for 2015’s plan:

April 20 ~ Fly to London!

April 24 ~ Fly to Copenhagen, say hi to everyone!

April 28 ~ Fly to Lisbon, say hi to everyone else!

May 2(?) ~ Walk the Camino Portugues from Porto to Santiago de Compostela

End of May ~ My parents visit! We spend a couple days in Lisbon, more days in Barcelona, and then head off to Saint-Malo, France for a day or two to find the estate that our family originated from before emigrating to America in 1736.

June-August ~ Hang out in Lisbon, teach hoop dance and HoopYogini™ classes, busk, find work

August 18-25 ~ Teach HoopYogini™ at the HoopGalaxy Hoop-Yoga Retreat in Yanıklar, Turkey!! http://www.hoopgalaxy.com/en/event/211/hoop-yoga-retreat-turkey-188-2582015 (email me at ruby.bachemin@gmail.com if you’re interested in attending!!)

September ~ Move to Freiburg, Germany

October ~ Begin studies for a Bachelors in Science at the Univesity of Freiburg

Once again, let’s see where life takes me!

Porto

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I’m in Porto! Woohoo! Pedro called yesterday and said he had a place for us to stay if we wanted to go so we packed our bags and were on the bus by 19:00! We arrived late last night and started our mini vacation with a stop at “Munchie” for a delicious burger and fresh squeezed lemonade. Although I only managed to catch a few, dim glimpses of the city before bed, I was immediately seduced by the quiet beauty that is Porto on a summer night. The energy here is beautiful. While it is a tourist destination with similarities to Lisbon during the day, at night the eager travelers go into hiding and the humble old town charm shines through.

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We chilled out on the rooftop of the hostel where Pedro’s friend, Joana – a sweet, curly-haired girl with glasses and a motorcycle – works night shifts. From up there, we could look out over the churches and monuments; all dramatically uplit, as if they were old call girls, well beyond their years but fully aware that they “still got it.”

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This morning I woke up before the others. I could see through her cracked door that Joana had returned from work and Pedro had been bumped down to Mattress on the Floor Status. Raechel slept in the extra double bed that we had shared for the night and grunted and groaned when I pulled up the curtain to unleash the evil sunlight. I took a shower, slipped on my little flower dress, and spent the morning sitting on the terrace in this cozy top-floor apartment in Porto, listening to the shouts of French neighbors and Portuguese children down below.

IMG_3482.JPG Photo cred: Top three are mine, last one by Pedro Cisneiros

Written on 8 August 2014

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In the streets of the medina
eruptive calls travel from vendor to vendor,
hitting my ears with a loud bang,
lingering until I push out my palm and shake my head

In the streets of the medina
vibrant colors of spices, scarves, and stray cats
flash before my eyes and beckon me closer,
each little stand more striking than the last

In the streets of the medina
almonds, oranges, and exhaust announce their presence
with striking scents, welcoming and nauseating,
always questioning whether I am intrigued or faint

In the streets of the medina
nothing happens that isn’t happening Now
yesterday is gone and five minutes ago is a distant memory
this is the true pull that wraps it’s arms around me and yanks forward on my wandering body
keeping me Alive

Words are not being kind to me today, so I will express my love for this beautiful city through photography. Some of my favourite features of Lisboa are the remnants of the old Moorish domination. The distinctive tiles have actually preserved the historic buildings of Alfama and kept them more or less intact, even through the massive earthquake of 1755. I’m such a sucker for the old. Suffice to say, the tiles add an unmatchable charm to Lisbon and a big smile to my face!

Enjoy the view!

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Reflection on the Water

imageWorn out after hours of dancing in Biarro Alto, Marlene and I walked back to the hostel along the water’s edge. We listened to the soft beats of the music in far away clubs grow quieter and quieter and followed the line of glowing city lights across the bay. Stopping for a moment, we sat and looked out as humble waves crashed against the cement, inching closer and nearly kissing our feet. A couple walked behind us and their quiet, romantic Portuguese words passed with them. The air was crisp and felt clean as I took a deep breath in, hold, and out. Find your center. Find your heart. Find your home.

 

Bem-vindo a Lisboa!

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I made it! And man, oh man, was it difficult! My flights got delayed twice and I ended up  arriving in Lisbon a full 24 hours after I had expected! That’s about 42 hours of travel, a night of sleeping on lumpy airport chairs, and five(!) plane rides. I will admit, I was a bit flustered when I first got here. I wasn’t sure where I was suppose to be and my luggage had not arrived yet (still hasn’t, actually), but things are beginning to come together.

Metro Station

Metro Station

Lisbon is gorgeous. I stayed at a hostel in the center of the city the first night and stayed up until the wee hours of the morning drinking wine and playing “Never Have I Ever” with the other travelers and volunteers. After some much needed sleep (in a real bed!!) I went to the sister hostel near the water where I am to stay for the next few weeks to work. I am sleeping in a small room in the attic with 4 other volunteers, stuffed to the brim with dirty socks, backpacks, beds, and art supplies. Perfection.

Thieve's Market

Thieve’s Market

After a night of dancing in Bairro Alto, a few other volunteers and I wandered the city, following the 28 tram tracks so as not to get too entirely lost. We visited the thieves market (if you lose something in Lisbon, you will probably find it here), where I bought a pair of funky silver earrings, and ate potato chips in the park, overlooking the entire city.

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All in all, it’s been a lovely start to what I am sure is to be a crazy and invaluable adventure!

Getting Uncomfortable

Jude the Cat! Purrrr

Jude the Cat! Purrrr

I’m sitting on the big purple couch in my parents’ house in Cincinnati, Jude the cat purring loudly on my lap, my fingers aching from hours spent playing guitar.

In less than two weeks, I fly to Lisbon.

Ahhh!

I’ve been in Cincinnati for about six months now. Starting in the summer of 2012, I spent almost a year in Copenhagen for the first year of The Commedia School, an amazing international physical theatre program.

Family of Clowns at The Commedia School

Family of Clowns at The Commedia School

When the school year was over, I hopped through Europe from Hoopurbia in Prague, to a hoop workshop with Lisa Lottie near Zürich, to busking at a Blues Festival in Suwalki, Poland. Then I returned “home” to Ohio, got a job, and did the unthinkable. I got comfortable.

Yikes!

Well, that’s about to change, and I can’t wait! While leaving will certainly be more difficult this time around (I’ve made some wonderful friends who will be dearly missed), I am incredibly excited for the adventures to come!

For nostalgic purposes, here is my “plan” for the next year or so:

Feb. 11 ~ Fly to Lisboa! Volunteer at the Alfama Patio Hostel, attempt to get some extra cash and practice busking, speak Portuguese!

March ~ Volunteer at a holistic health retreat in Coimbra, Portugal

April 15 ~ Birthday in Portugal! Weee!

May ~ Barcelona!

May 31-June 6 ~ Hoop Gathering in Girona!

June ~ Maybe stop in Berlin, then return to Copenhagen

October ~ Second year of the Commedia School

It’s a guilty pleasure of mine to look back on old travel plans and compare them to what actually happened. So we’ll see how it all turns out 😉